Category: Autobiographical

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Tea and Sympathy

I am a tea drinker. Oh, I enjoy my morning coffee, but I drink more tea than coffee.

My favorites are Earl Grey, Chai, and Jasmine teas. I also enjoy lemon with ginger, green teas, and cinnamon teas.

The habit began in my childhood. Having an Irish grandmother who consumed a fair amount of tea in her time, I was introduced to tea before I ever tried coffee. Nanny Smith lived with my family on Staten Island, and it became our ritual to drink afternoon tea together. I would come home from school, and I would make us both a cup of tea and chat about our day. Usually, we drank Lipton tea which she bought at the A&P in New Dorp.

Plus, we had the occasional cookies or bakery goods that had been delivered by the Holterman’s bakery nearby.Those were special times. Generally, we had crackers or buttered toast or tea by itself.

Tea with milk and sugar seemed the cure-all for colds, chills, fever, and the winter blues.

The idea of a coffee hour came in my late teens when I had a summer job at a bank where the entire office stopped at mid-morning for a coffee break. At that time, I worked for the Federal Reserve Bank of New York, and it was a welcome respite to pause after counting checks to have a cup of coffee, a snack of some kind, and chat awhile. Coffee began to replace my tea in the morning and at midday. Yet, I still had my tea sometime during the day.

Over the year, I had the opportunity to travel, and I learned that tea is a favored drink in many countries especially in Ireland, land of my maternal ancestors. My first trip to the Erin isle proved fun and one of an inordinate amount of tea consumption as there was tea in the morning, tea with lunch, tea in the late afternoon, and tea after dinner. Tea and sympathy is an expression that rings true as it was often over tea that stories were told, condolences made, and friendships rekindled.

I drank mint tea in a glass in Tangiers, tea and crumpets in Bermuda, afternoon tea with sandwhiches in London, a Victorian tea in Cape May, New Jersey, and a variety of teas elsewhere. I still drink the type of tea which my maternal grandmother favored, Lipton, and I think of those times we had long ago.

 

 

 

Artsy in Other Ways

Maybe it was the influence of my childhood in Greenwhich Village where I attended a pottery school at age seven and enjoyed browsing the art exhibits at Washington Square Park  or maybe it was the times that I stayed home from school due to a serious bout with brochial asthma and spent hours sketching and coloring, but there has always been the artist in me. I did a lot more drawing and painting in my youth, and I minored in art in high school, but I veered away as I entered the work force. Instead I used my “leisure time” to write poety, short stories, and eventually novels. After time in the business world, I returned to college to pursue graduate studies in education. I became a teacher of language arts, but still I pursued the arts by creating stained glass objects, decorating, and writing.

When the local adult school offered art classes, I took up drawing and watercolor. There is much to be said for the connections I make with my writing and art. Both require observing one’s world and draw upon experiences. I believe that using that type of creativity with my art enriches my writing, and vice versa. Three of my novels, Angels Among Us, A Kiss Out of Time, and A Dance Out of Time feature artists as the protagonists, and I somehow work in artsy types in my stories. A recent trip to the Montclair Art Museum inspired a story which I plan to finish writing this summer. So, I will continue to dabble and to draw and to paint and to be “artsy” in other ways.

 

Food for Thought

The holidays are here, and with it the temptations of the season. This Thanksgiving I did not serve roasted turkey, the usual fare, but my family dined on one of their home cooked favorites, lasagne, and they enjoyed every bite. Although it felt strange not doing a lot of baking and boiling, it left more time to enjoy with my family and less clean-up.

Time is precious, and so it goes with writing. It takes a certain amount of discipline to sit down and write. I opted out of this year’s NaNoWriMo due to an injury sustained in a recent fall, but I did not forget my promise to get back to working on my writing as soon as possible. That means the busy holiday season will be a bit busier for the writer in me. I was half way through two books in the works, and I plan to finish them by the new year. At least I hope to finish the “rough” drafts and get them in decent shape to pitch at next year’s writers’ conventions.

In the meantime, my aim is to cut down on some of the season’s temptations, and that’s not easy given the upcoming get togethers, parties, and dining out. It is also easy to snack on the go or to indulge in snacking while seated at the computer awhile, so I have to plan ahead. Some low calorie snacks including popcorn, carrots and celery with hummus, apples, and smaller portions will help. A friend suggested seltzer with a twist of lime or lemon to cut back on the caffeine and the sugary beverages.

 

A little exercise goes a long way when you can get there. I plan to get back to that too. Walking more, taking stairs instead of elevators, and maybe getting to the gym now and then. It’s not too early to beat those resolutions before the new year.

Wishing everyone a happy and healthy holiday season!